Icelandic bankruptcy news on a fried fry, it seems one o'clock everyone waits for But the ground, at great length in addition to the media, the Nordic people have people reminding us of scenes related to enjoying the ranking in the world for several years, the happiness index. Why Nordic
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afternoon four or five o'clock, the Nordic people have to work drove to the lake or the mountains, boating or rock climbing wanton manner; CBD area of China at the moment, workers are still hard to punch performance, continue to eat a variety of convenience foods. Unwritten culture of overtime, so that China's office building is still brightly lit at night, dinner and entertainment and disguise extended working hours.
Nordic hours 37 hours per week, and the Chinese people on average more than 8 hours. According to the UN International Labour Organization (ILO) released a survey last year, average working hours of the Chinese people have more than 2200 hours, almost highest in the world. This price, so that our prosperity into the famous In the past ten years, China's economic indicators rose year by year, the value of the Chinese people's happiness failed to synchronize, and then decreased not paddled a nice curve.
in recent years, countries around the world since the launch of the happiness index, the value of being ranked in the five Nordic countries topped the list of all locations, while China remained far in the three forty. Whether it is in the natural environment, infrastructure, social welfare, culture and education, the hard toil of the Chinese people in the end is lost to the Nordic people.
looking ahead, the Nordic countries do not have tall buildings, people dressed in plain, driving cars, eating simple food, a day after 7 pm on the street is quiet, there is no luxury to the nightlife, there is no super-luxury spending to stimulate the person's nerves. Living in this place of men, happiness come from?
Scandinavian men often mention a word is the quality of life in Sweden is an old saying: Money can be saved, and time can not be stored, how do you take the time to decide your life's quality of life. Is a house, cars, tickets full of life, and the children, his wife, the garden is full of life, Nordic men choose the latter, because they want quality, rather than material.
quality of life for children is an important part of a man
If you have children, and nanny costs particularly expensive, you will choose to go outside to find a job to earn money more than your nanny to the children, or resign themselves to go home with children?
In Sweden, many men invariably choose the latter. Some might say it is because they have a year of paid maternity leave, the Government encourages fertility. They would say, you're right, but, more important reason is that women are more careful than men with children, or children together with his father in order to develop a good personality. Fredrik said may be the most representative: First Sound called 'father', I could not wait against the wall. On the road are often seen arm tattoo, but in the chest pocket of a baby, a child holding hands, carrying shopping bags blond guy, who walked slowly, from time to time to the street of shops peered about, as if my heart in Mosuan also purchase things. Park also pushing baby carriages sun milk dad, changing diapers when the child's leg and lift it up, Shou Dixia a stretch of a plug, the action is very skilled.
Fredrik is a store accountant, the company has specialized kindergartens and nursing rooms, many parents are with their children to work, lunch time, we still have to feed her child. Many milk middle Dad blend into the wet nurse, frankly bottle to feed her child, do not feel embarrassed. Airport men's bathroom even have a special baby diaper console, the Nordic father is also inseparable from the moment a child.
Dad, also have their own ideas, and create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere, children grow up healthy.
Swedish This time, there is a sense of accomplishment they feel very, very happy. Swedish men, men seeking a successful child is not a background process, but a man the most important part of quality of life.
love of a woman is to love their
we all know, the Danish institution of marriage on the verge of extinction, many adult men and women living together without marriage. Married people are often dressed in civilian clothes to registering with it. And Denmark is the country with a high degree of openness personality. Denmark, however, men are very conservative and specificity.
Eric has a very good job at a company for software development division, and half the time he was promoted to director of research can be. This time his girlfriend Jan is sent to Hong Kong bank's headquarters as manager, this is the dream opportunity to Jan, for her one hour every day to learn Chinese. This is worrying, not married love, can withstand the test of the two separated?
Eric has Minqi nice lips laughed, he relaxed and said, I will go to the company two weeks after leading the final month's salary.
Eric believes that their work is good, but he did not desire the work of Jan so strong, of course, give up the better. Jan every day so hard to learn Chinese, she will be able to realize their dreams. Does not exist that separated the problem, because it is not within the scope of their consideration.
Eric enroll on their own initiative against domestic violence training, men should talk about how to avoid domestic violence, his words became a lot; course there are fathers, he said later went abroad without fear of such courses, He must first learn, if Jan was pregnant to give her the best care.
This is not a special case. Danish men from childhood been taught to love a woman, respect for women. Eric not only for her Jqan way of his mother, sisters are like this to take care of every possible way. The tragic death of her sister's husband, Eric accompany her for a whole year, every day to take care of her daily diet, to enlighten her, take her to travel in her row, when feeling out of control shouting rushed to hug her, kiss the tears her. He loves all women, it has become part of his life, in his view, nothing's commitment to a woman only made him feel uneasy, only every second companionship and attention to make him feel at ease.
find yourself happy thing to do
Reidun live on an island near Bergen, Norway, the island is almost deserted, are hidden in every house with large tracts of woods and lawn. His home is a two-story house, the furnishings inside are very common, but the open back door, people would scream out, after his stunning garden, roses, tulips bursts of aroma, green lawn is trimmed the same as the carpet, and even an artificial waterfall, under a piece of curtain shield engraved stone. Reidun proudly said: Norway every family has something in the back garden. Reidun proud of waterfalls, it was no ordinary stone, carving his own pattern inevitably rough.
Reidun said: br> Reidun never restless, his plan now is to dig a log each week to take a cabin in the woods, but also assemble a fireplace in the winter with a family vacation.
for Reidun, the: find yourself happy to do, to make their lives there are many flavors, not lazy, it will only enrich. >
7 pm to 10 pm, where are you?
China: most people in the KTV, play cards, eat a big meal, entertainment, shopping ..., is rarely at home (even at home, but also the Internet, watching TV).
Nordic: at this time is Family time, family time, do not open the TV, the Nordic shops closing at 6 o'clock at night (sometimes earlier), we all go home dinner party, few people wandering outside.
you every day to accompany a child or family to eat breakfast?
China: young parents, often applied too late the night before overtime, so the morning, get up, let alone eating breakfast; most children's breakfast on the corner at the intersection solution, with pocket money , not afraid of hungry.
Northern Europe: one hundred percent certain parents and children to eat breakfast, a last resort, then there will be a stay by the child.
you willing to work with parents of young children to go out with you
China: Do not say because the period of adolescent rebellion, in fact, because the parents the result of early errors. Recall that adults with children attend the banquet, a permanent run around by them, in the case of an extremely bored, mischievous kids always scolded. Determined after growing up, usually about 80% of parents did a good thing.
Northern Europe: the parents about the child is the joy of the children do go out, even if the parents of 80-year-old Nordic phone to play a 60-year-old child, but also similar trips. Nordic parents take their children out if you, will arrange trips to a child-centered content, or would rather not close at hand, a simple appointment. Therefore, the Nordic children know, as long as the parents about the absolute is a good thing.
you have to work until midnight at night?
China: majority of Chinese people is very sad the way overtime, nine to nine, the task in the first result is that home late evening, the Chinese often go home at night, when my father a child has sleep morning to get up and they have school children, live under one roof, five days a week can not meet a good talk, has become China's double-income family life normal.
Northern Europe: even to work overtime, also does not affect the family on the time, such as his father would prefer to work overtime at 3 o'clock, at least at home mother can accompany a child to eat breakfast, and her father lost only one hour breakfast together. At overtime sounds incredible, but it does increase the Nordic dads family dinner together three hours time.
to help children buy a house? Or buy a house together
China: Many Chinese parents often dig into their pockets to pay for a child to buy a car down payment or mortgage, or, is to ask the children to live with their parents altogether, to save rent and loans.
Nordic: To buy a car for the child, the child will begin to work to save money on the junior high school, parents to incremental sponsorship funds, together with the children bought three second-hand car, to a child to college need to use cars, Both sides put three good second-hand car parts get together a good car success, which is the Nordic people to send vehicles to the child's way. Other children to get married, parents will usually calculate how much money your child how much money, then the joint venture to buy a land, together building a new house, which is the basic business model parent-child affection.
